The True Love Test ( 13 questions )
Do you really love him, or are you just intoxicated in the romantic feeling of being in love, in lieu of truly loving him? Please answer the following questions truthfully to see if he is your true love.
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You are very likely to have been lost in the fantasy.
You are very likely to have been lost in the fantasy. The way you feel about him is probably completely an illusion on your mind without any substance and authenticity. This is very dangerous, because the love you give may be unrequited, which may hurt your own self-esteem. Instead of giving one-sided love meaninglessly, you might as well take your time to work hard step by step, and you may find someday that plenty of people of the opposite sex are taking the initiative to approach you.
You might be truly in love this time.
You might be truly in love this time. You are mature in your mind and able to see and accept the real person he is true to himself. Even if you’ve seen his shortcomings and weaknesses, your affection for him will not diminish. This kind of unconditional care and concern is indispensable in every true love.
You are showing signs of "love for love" everywhere.
You are showing signs of "love for love" everywhere. It seems that you are not in love with the real person he is true to himself, but the idealized image of him on your mind. In other words, what you fall in love with is your own fantasy and illusion. When you idealize someone, you will not see the real person he is objectively, and you will not see his weaknesses and shortcomings at all. If you idealize him too much, once you find that he fails to meet the illusion of the image you’ve created, you will get disappointed with him. Gradually, you will start to doubt your original vision and choice. Actually, if you don’t idealize him anymore, you may find that the real person he is himself is better than that you’ve idealized.